What to do when an EA involved?

[bdub]

It is impossible to avoid helping. I have given in to that fact.
Keep working on yourself and doing your DB. I am in the same situation you are in. Emotionally I get better every day. W gets further away everyday but we have come to terms with it and have chosen a plan of action. Lately I have been spending a lot of time picturing what its going to be like when she moves. I am picturing the worst so that I am at least somewhat prepared for what actually happens.