Hi pilot, I wish I could offer some comforting words but it does sound like your W is hiding something. As you said, it could be anything. Another man's undies or just the expensive TV she bought with your money. Don't worry too much about it in any case.
You did great with the kids. She is being selfish.
I think the advice you have gotten above from 25 is something to think about. Maybe it is time to refocus for a minute. I am with you on being frustrated, lonely, angry etc etc. But it is true that if you want your wife back you (we) should probably stop thinking about ourselves and think about the consistent changes we want to make to and for ourselves and display those to the WAS.
If we focus on being the best we can be, maybe the other stuff will work itself out...?
