That is disappointing, Pilot. It's almost like she was agitated and anxious. I wonder what that was all about.
What I'm confused about is if she had just simply said, "Hey, i'm not sure I can stay the whole game, is it cool if I leave both kids with you and jet out at half time?" I'm pretty sure you wouldn't argue, right? I mean, it's like she was trying to hide but why? Just say what you want, woman!
The "errands" thing is hilarious actually. That's when I hit the post office and the drug store, you?
I cannot mind read, but 2 possibilities stick out. One (the less likely) is that someone is/has been staying with her. I do not really think this...but it would be a reason to keep me out. The other, more likely is that she does not want me to see how much she has spent in her new place because she is still asking me to pay her cc bills. And she is afraid if I see she is buying new tvs and furniture, i would tell her she does not need money from me. Of course, there is always the possibility she just does not want me in there.
I absolutely would not have cared if she said she wanted to leave early. She could have told the kids that too so they would understand. but to tell me early on she does not want to stay long and then try to pawn her leaving off as the youngest is tired and not accept taking him so S5 can continue a night he was really enjoying was just crappy of her.
IF...I was a mind reader, or someone else had typed this, I would tell them that W was probably hiding something. What, we do not know. But there was something she did not want me to see because she did not want me to react. And that was probably because she was having mixed feelings, or uncertain about her feelings. She did not want to burn a bridge, but she also did not want to alter her current lifestyle.
Who knows...
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16