I am distancing as much as possible while in the same home/bed. We have S3.5 here. I keep quiet. She initiates conversation. She has said she wants to help me with anything, just ask. I told her in therapy, she would have to offer "help" at specific situations, I am not going to just ask. I have lost 35 lbs. started working out in the basement. I wear new clothes as I get them. tighter fitting and flattering. My colognes...I only wore with her on special occasions. I now wear daily. Digital frame in the den has been up and running 2 months now. current pics and trips, wedding, fun times we have had scroll by from 10am to 730pm. She works from home, so I have the frame on an end table facing her office Social life....hmm, I try. Mainly I just go "out" on my own. She inquires where/when stuff. When I return I get conversation about when/where I was. Then updates about what she did, although I do not ask. I play with S3.5 and try taking him away for several hours each weekend. Going on a guy trip next week.4 days. She has already asked me if I am excited...digs for details, etc. I am trying to touch her more and be friendly. Arm sqeezes as I pass, shoulder squeeze as I speak to her while son is sitting between us...grab her toe/foot and rub a second while chatting from end of bed at night. I the move on and go do my own thing. I do not call/text/email/give gifts. I bought some cool flowers for the house last week, for me. I am thoughtful when going to the market. If I know she is out of something, I get it. (paying attention) Anything else Mr. Bond?
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
