So my W called me a few times today, he frequency that she calls me has gone up dramatically. So she had a problem with her boss and called to vent . I listened and didn't interrupt her and asked what she was going to do when she finished. It seemed to help because she then called later to tell me her grandmother was in the hospital. I asked if she was ok and she started to tell me what was going on. We also talked about something's I had done with our oldest son which made her very happy. I am not going to make any moves in the bed even though I just want to touch her. She has been moving closer every weekend. I am hopeful and prepared if things turn out wrong. I'm not expecting anything and taking it as it comes but I am still prepared for the worse. I really love my W. On the OM front the texting seems to have decreased to the point where it' looks like it is just work related. I told her that I had started to hate her iPhone because of the amount of attention she gave it. I think that she understood how I could feel that way.