What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

I didn't really talk to FIL much about the R, he just wanted to make sure i was doing ok and express his sympathy. I made sure not to tell him anything that would upset W as per the sandi rules.

After the stager left W started packing and getting the house tidy for sale, maybe I'm not in as much control of the list date as originally anticipated. I know I shouldn't have done it but I offered to help, mostly just carting boxes that were too heavy for her to lift. I did it on my own terms though, after i had made myself a nice stir fry for dinner and in between watching an epic thunder storm going on.

All and all I thought it would be harder watching her stuff leave the house. Maybe I just have no more room for sadness left or maybe it was the exercise of lifting boxes that calmed me down, either way i'm quietly enjoying a beer, watching a great light show, and making a forum post to supportive friends. I'm feeling content with my life moving forward (at least tonight), where ever forward may lead.

Edit: is today better then yesterday? Emotionally for me yes, for reconciliation not at all.