Igit newbie needs help part 3

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HI MR BOND, MAKING SURE THIS got back to you.. To answer your question I am not certain she is still seeing other m, however she has become so sneaky I believe she still is. I saw her car in his garage 5-6 weeks ago. I have to drive by his home almost everyday because of a detour. Anyway saw garage shut and looked like her car in garage. I texted her and told her they should get some blinds for garage. Anyway I was served D papers a few weeks ago. I will back up a minute and tell you she got a teaching job mid August, She filed late July <not known to me until I was served papers August 15th> Prior to her accepting job she asked if I could commit to getting 3 young kids to school. Of Course I agreed thinking this is what she needed to get her life on track. then served 2 weeks later. met with my L yesterday and needed to get Tax returns. I asked Where they were last night. told her reason why and asked if she could put them out for me this am before she left for work. She didn't do that, so I asked her again tonight after work. she asked if we could talk and I told her no I wasn't in the mood to talk with her. she said she would get for me tonite when she got back from vball with kids. Anyway looking for your advise on how to deal with this.
thank you MR BOND