I found out that she's been drinking to oblivion and seeing several men out of desperation. When the last man dumped her she called me. That's when I came over. Only problem was he was there when I got there. He then basically said he was out and W and I needed to work it out. My W is so conflicted she's borderline scitzo. Told me she loved me always and didn't want D, but after ML changed her story. Asked me Togo to work.
Then, depressed because she hasn't been ready to choose (me or OM) she was angry that she lost him because of me. Asked me who told me to come over (she did). Then she gave up.
I found her phone and broke the rules. I've decided the kids aren't safe with her right now and they need me. I am moving back into my home NOW. She will be in urgent care for 5 days and will be evaluated for inpatient care. I am passing this info on to the doctors because I believe she is so out of control she needs protection from herself. I will stay in my home and raise my kids no matter how tough. At least that's how I feel now, but one day at a time. As for R, it certainly looked like she was in love with OM and hated me, but again, she's said a lot of things that don't add up. Maybe when she's been single and sober 30-60 days well see. That may or may not happen.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
