I let her text sit for hours while formulating a response. I told her,
"Sorry for not getting back to you right away. I had a very busy work day."
"I think you should do it. I want to get back into tennis too."
Later on, she sends me an e-mail regarding this weekend.
She suggested that I stay over my brother's place since I will be home late. At the same time, she said that she will be spending the night (with the OM) tonight and tomorrow. Previously, it was supposed to be just tomorrow.
I am starting to think that her encouragement for me to get out there, away from the family, is perhaps to make her feel better about having done the same (and continuing to do so). I think she may feel sort of "let's her off the hook" in a way.
I don't know. I'm mind-reading here. Bad, bad, bad!
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!