Starsky, If she has a need for additional advice, she'll return. Maybe she finally figured out what she wanted and didn't want to hear any more advice from us about dropping the rope. Whatever the reason, she's gone for now. Sometimes posters come, stay a while and then ride off into the sunset.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.