Can I get some advice on physical intimacy? I'm not sure when continuing hinders more than it helps. I've been operating on the theory that our R was sex starved and it's a 180 for me to be ready when he is. I do enjoy it and want to be intimate, so it's not all him, but I'm conflicted about whether or not it's hurting my DB efforts.
At first he said he felt guilty afterward and we had to stop (he didn't want to give me or himself false hope and he can't separate his emotions from sex, and he needs to detach); I said fine; no big deal.
Now it seems he's initiating more.
Dunno what that's about. Did he decide he can be intimate with no feelings? I won't mind read, I guess.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".
