oh one more thing I forgot to mention - there was a Discover card account that I thought was closed years and years ago - turns out it wasn't closed and I went to see my credit karma account and it showed that the card had been reactivated and being used again. I had a panic moment, he charged 3500.00 in less than a month on it. I called them immediately and said remove me from that and the agent told me that luckily I was only an "authorized user" on the account and only HE was accountable for the charges, being the owner of the account. I am no longer an authorized user and it would no longer show up on my credit report as my debt. sheesh - I don't know how that one snuck by me, I would have thought after probably 5 years of not using that account and it was at zero balance that it was closed, we didn't even own the card anymore but he must have remembered it and called them up and got a new one sent out. Not my business anymore but just goes to show you have to be really careful in your splitting of the accounts and they tend to spend like crazy.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
