Date with W tomorrow! We had originally talked about going out tonight, but W has a long day of work then is taking the kids for the night. I text asking if she'd rather go tomorrow since she was going to have a long day (was hoping she would since we'd have more time). She replied yes, and asked if I wanted her to plan/pick dinner (to which I said yes). Encouraging that she voluntarily took an active role in planning the date and not just going through the motions.
