What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

Thanks bdub great advice as usual. Looking at it from a different perspective does help me justify holding onto it a little better. I'm leaving shortly to go sign the listing paperwork with 1 addendum, the listing date is to be left blank. This will allow us to get the stager in and have things ready to go. I should note it was the W who pushed for this, she blamed me to the realtor saying i felt things were moving really fast. I did say this but it was prefaced by "I'm ok with it and feel it's fair what the realtor has said" in no way did I lead on that listing immediately was a huge issue. Probably just reading too much into things again but it would appear she's not quite ready to burn this bridge yet.

In other news I met with FIL last night for coffee. He was very remorseful on his behalf and for her entire family. He mentioned that they were all blindsided by this and wishes he knew sooner so he could have done more. I was shocked about this since W told me that they saw it coming. Aside from that we just had a nice talk about stocks, sports and the state of the world. Since there was very little talk about our R I feel I missed a chance to express my own failures in the marriage and take responsibility for them, not a huge issue and i did let him know i was hoping for reconciliation.