Throughout his ordeal, I have told him to make me a list of things he wants and he never did.
As I go through things, I've noticed he cleaned things out more than I anticipated. Some tools are missing...smaller things that went unnoticed...jack for the cars...yadda, yadda...
We have this barn that has no door. Early on, he promised that he and his dad would come out and put a door on the barn. They never did. In the meantime, we have had several break ins up and down the street. I made Smokey aware of this and even asked for one of his guns at one point...he refused. One week ago, someone tried to use a crowbar to get into the house 2 doors down.
I guess what I'm trying to say...I'm not feeling as if I have to be extra careful with the stuff.
Smokey took thousands of dollars worth of guns, baseball cards and his "fun" Jeep which he sold and didn't give me a dime. I'm being cautious with the meaningful/sentimental things...but, he's had four months to respond to the dissolution proposal and ask for things. At this point, show me the money.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
