This house and its upkeep are way more than I need. They were a little excessive even with a functional marriage, but this was intended to be the house our kids were teenagers in so it wasn't too much of a stretch. Just the upkeep is an obscene amount of money every month and I can think of better things to do with my money than that.

But I'm going to probably talk to the lawyer soon. I just want to make sure I'm making a good decision intellectually and not because I'm mad that H took his apartment key back without telling me and has been staying out till the wee hours on a business trip.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.