are you absolutely certain that you would have to sell the house if you D? I thought this was a sure thing too, and really upset by it, but then started evaluating finances much more closely and realized I could probably negotiate with H and make it work. It's something that stressed me a lot and I get the impression it does you too, just trying to make sure you've explored all options. It was a big relief when I started figuring out how to work it out to stay in the house with the kids. There are no guarantees but I felt I would have a strong case for a judge. It started to take some pressure off for me.
Hugs to you!
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
