wow, man, I am so happy for you -- it may not feel like it, but the statement "it is going to work out either way" is a real breakthrough -- it was mine, too, by the way -- my ring is on and has never been off -- will never be -- I've decided to live as a married man, regardless of what happens -- a little out there, yes, but I think my girls will ask me someday why I am still alone --- that will be my sign that I did exactly what I intended -- served as a model for what commitment to my family looks like -- that is my long-term goal -- I think you need to do what make you feel confident -- all of us will pick differently in this area, and I think that is ok -- I think what folks were saying a couple days ago is do it for yourself, not to get your wife back -- at least that is what I ment :-) ... how is the tummy??
