Georgiabelle, that's not hurtful, that's why I came to ask opinions. He has been paying everything, and I think his intention is to continue. He would not be able to face his family if he abandoned us financially and he knows that's the first place I would turn if he did. So that's not really the question so much as whether he's in the sort of downward spiral that would leave him unable to meet his obligations.
But your point about my financial security is well taken.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15