Sorry the W is trying to play games again. My L told me if there was anything that was in disput that I didn't want Clark to take, to remove it from the house, but disclose to the courts where it is. I keep it safe and still in my possession, but I'm aware that it may be turned over to him anyways.
I feel like the KY and TX laws are very similar, so maybe you can do the same. Take some stuff to a friend or relatives house that W doesn't go to. MAKE SURE TO TELL YOUR L YOU HAVE DONE THIS! No getting in trouble on her account.
And I like the approach Ss suggests. If you have the stuff out, it won't bother you as much, but I totally get the not wanting her in your home. I'm starting to feel the same way with Clark.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile