Happy belated birthday to your daughter. I'm sure she had a wonderful day w/family and then visiting w/her friend. She's in first grade and will have many things to talk about when she arrives home each evening. Your xh is a fool. I'm sorry he didn't call her on her special day or her first day of school. He'll regret it one day.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
