igit, you and I man...I am telling you...we are the same people in a parallel universe. My W did not understand the concept of a D being a lawsuit and a contested one at that is a recipe for unpleasantness. It is interesting though that she broke down at the news as it suddenly she is realizing the full gravity of what a D will entail. That it is not a Sunday picnic in the park. You did great, but in the future, maybe do not say things like 'how did you think the D would work out' and 'i just think you are rushing things' because yea, it goes in one ear and out the other. It also implies a logical mind at the other end of your words, and right now, her mind is not there.

Keep up the good work buddy!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16