Maybell, I would hazard a guess your dad thinks he is protecting you. From his vantage point he sees you sitting back and taking what your H has done. I seriously doubt he is aware of the depths of your efforts and understanding of what is going on. For him, he has the male and fatherly instinct to protect his baby girl, in spite of herself (from his viewpoint). He probably just does not get what you are up to.

Keep at it!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16