I did just that. When she came back I told her that while I like to have normal conversation about our days, it hurts me to hear about your interaction with him. I won't stay for these conversations.

Hey. Great minds...it felt good to verbalize it.

Of course she didn't like it. She talked about having to compartmentalizing work and home, what can we talk about? and said "maybe we should separate"
I replied "maybe we should". Probably should have said, "I'm sorry you feel that way" to validate, but I didn't.

I don't even get upset by that anymore - annoyed.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015