""I can't work out at all how to communicate with him. He questions me relentlessly and tries to trap me into making all sorts of strange admissions. ""

Same here. I can't be normal with my ex - he is always trying to twist even my simplest sentences into something bad.

You sound great

Keep talking with your son as much as possible about his feelings, he did not deserve this crap


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13