Oops... seems that darn patience shovel almost slipped out of your hands there for a moment, daring! Better order the kevlar reinforced, DB approved MLC gloves with Kung Fu grip.
I want you to go to the chalk board and write 500 times "I Can't Fix Him, gosh diddley darn it"
I'm glad you've decided to give H more space and time. It truly is the right thing to do. One day he may even thank you for this gift.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl