I'm glad to hear somebody around here is getting some action!
It's been way too long for me, that's for sure.
You probably do have a good sense for picking through the trash in search of treasures. It's great you found a number of people who were real additions to your life.
I think you're right that a lot of it depends on who is doing the picking.
If they're a bit screwy, they're going to pick screwy. And now that I think about it, the women I know who have had the worst experiences aren't exactly the best pickers--multiple marriages and failed relationships; of course, now I'm in the "failed marriage" category myself!
On the other hand, I think if there is ever a next time for me, I will be looking for some red flags I obviously missed the first time around.
So if and when the time comes, I'll be a better "picker" too.
I might pick me a guy so handsome that women run around after him trying to get a better look!
How on earth do you deal with that? I think I'd just laugh every time it happened.
Nothing like coming out on top, eh?
What is it they say? "The best revenge is a life well-lived." (With a hot boyfriend who is as loyal as a Labrador Retriever!!! My kind of guy!!)
Ain't it the truth?
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?