So-something that causes a break down - I feel it's detaching, she feels it's me not accepting.

She talks a lot about work - I let her and listen, acting or being interested. In the conversations she brings up OM - She works with him daily. I tend to fade off and shut down a little and this infuriates her. She reads my face. She usually shuts down (or storms off like tonight).

This is going to be tough - I am trying to stay detached, and a daily conversation about our work days used to be so normal. Now - with this - it gets to me every time. I know - detach.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015