How about splitting nanny fees proportional to ur incomes? That's how child care costs are split here. According to my lawyer in my case H would have to pay 60% & I'd be required to pay 40%


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14