That whole "we're in reconciliation but you're dropping hints you really want a D" thing is bizarre.
I sometimes feel that from GUBU.
Like he wants to make it clear he's done with me, but then gets irritated that I don't reach out and give him reassurances that I'm still here, pining away in case he ever changes his mind.
I am no man's "Plan B"!
Isn't like they think we're their MOMMIES?
Mommies are supposed to love them no matter what. They can tell Mommy they HATE HER! That she's not the boss of them.
But is Mommy allowed to say: "OK, obnoxious, spoiled brat, I'm taking you up on it."
"You 'hate' me, huh? Alright then, go be independent, pay your own bills, and don't come crying to me when things go wrong."
"Oh yeah, and I might just entertain some OTHER sons while you're gone, see if maybe I like any of them better than you."
"And while you're out 'finding yourself' and being hormonal, I'll just go for a nice trip to Costa Rica and do some parasailing. I'm sure you'll be fine while I'm gone. I'll bring you a tee-shirt!"
?????????
That wouldn't go over very well!
Mommy isn't supposed to remind them of how they screwed up, she's supposed to always be there to dole out CAKE and unconditional love.
She will always forgive and never leave.
I think there are a lot of similarities there, don't you?
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
