Thanks for your words. I do believe in energy fields. Like that idea and selection. Seems like a great GAL activity.
I'm in a bit of a quandary. School has started. And my W is taking the kids according to the schedule that we are alternating on. However, on the days she has the kids, she expects the nanny to come to her residence, pick up the kids and take them to school or my house.
I currently pay for the nanny. I like the idea of best interest for my kids, and I don't have a problem if this system is done, but the extra costs involved now I feel should be borne by both of us. She feels that she makes less and should have use of the nanny when needed. Huh?
Part of me wants to say, sorry, you made the decision, now you need to deal with it. Of course this isn't helpful at all. I also don't want my kids to suffer. But I feel she needs to deal with this. Another option is for her to get a place to live closer to where we live. Of course she didn't consult me when she rented her place, nor should she have. I know I am a bit bitter, but just not sure if I should be making a stand on this issue.
There has been no indication of any interest at all in a R with me. From what I can tell, the OM seems to have died off, but really that's irrelevant. I do know there is still communication between them. I walk the fine line of being totally dark, which prevents me from interaction, but I understand it's required at this point.
I'd welcome any thoughts on the nanny issue. Thanks.
