Aww, Sam. I wouldn't call myself a "master" by ANY stretch of the imagination.
Yes, Starsky and (to a lesser degree) I have been successful in getting our Ms back on track. But the truth of the matter is: it's so much easier for people on the OUTSIDE to see what's going on in your relationship because we aren't as emotionally invested. And, truth be told, there aren't many differences from one sitch to the next.
We've got your back!!
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014