Am I on the right track?

[wmwb123]

Wow, thanks Nitty. I appreciate your detailed response. That's very helpful.

I was just looking through your signature, and I thought things had improved for you. I thought you were on the path toward reconciliation. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I'm sorry you're still suffering.

My WW pretty much cut off all contact as soon as she left. I did not know about the affair until after she was gone, so I didn't get a chance to make any ultimatums. She was already gone, and she was already talking about divorce before I even recovered from the initial shock.

I never had a chance to really communicate with her and find out what I had done wrong. She would usually just say it was because she was selfish that she had to leave. Now I know what she was talking about.

I'm guessing she feels guilty, and that's why she won't talk to me via phone, text or in person.

Are there any stories of people getting through to their wayward spouses in the midst of divorce proceedings? Should I drag them out or just let her have the D?