Might I suggest you reread so much of the help you give to others, too? You are so wise behind your years and your grace shines through, more than you know I think. You give so much of yourself to many of us here and provide a sense of grounding and support and I'm not sure you realize it. You see so clearly others' positives and are so good at rooting for people. Your kind and gentle spirit permeates every word you write.
