I think it is reasonable to be thinking about this. Convey your concerns, that it is a pace your are comfortable with. Mainly because you don't want to fall into the same "traps" you had before BD.
Are you feeling "pressured" by this question?
BTW, I never really heard if you fully re-read DR & DB?
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
