Am I on the right track?

[wmwb123]

What did you expect her reaction to be?? Telling her all the ways her A is going to hurt her comes across as nothing but controlling. You would have been better served by stating your boundary (I will not live in an open marriage) as opposed to outing her, but what's done is done.

Are you still in coaching?

Yes, I know I shouldn't have gone into all that. But I figured it was probably the last chance I'd get to talk to her, so I wanted her to know that I cared about her. Controlling or not, I can't just sit by while the person I love more than anything in the world engages in self-destructive behavior.

I am not in coaching anymore, because I don't see what else there is to do. Nothing worked. I stuck with things for two weeks at a time trying to reach her, but she didn't respond to anything. She's deep in fog territory. I had hoped that her parents would be able to talk some sense into her. Her father told her to talk things over with me, but she refused.