Thanks Sandi to make a point our oldest son who she has spent the most time with and who is closer to her in his ways has decided to quit his job. I let her take point on this issue because they have a better relationship. We talked about what we would do if he decided to do this and came up with a plan together. Also yesterday we had a slight problem. I had mistaken what her schedule was for the next two weeks. She said that she had told me and that she had made it a point that I understood. I still don't remember this but I took responsibility for the mistake. She then calmed down and said that when she stepped back and looked at it that I have so much going that I could forget or make a mistake. I think her ll is definitely acts of service but with a little quality time. She called and said that she wanted to come home today because I have a lot going on and she wanted to make it easy on me. I said that it's not really a lot and to do what's best for her. She then said I don't want to put a burden on you and I said if I couldn't do it I would say so. She responded by saying that she didn't think I would to protect her. I then asked if protecting her upset her. She said sometimes but mostly no. I have been asking her opinion on a types of things. I have been telling her good job and asking questions.
