WAW, she had an affair, separating to "think"

[jb13529]

Wow, amazing responses all around.
I have not been able to detach very well yet, but at least we can now speak with respect and love for one another. (Was difficult at first)
She is just adamant that her only way through the pain and suffering she is experiencing is to have her own life for a while. And that life is going to include OM (at least a little, he's not that interested) and possibly other men.

I need a game plan for when she leaves. I know we aren't in the LRT place, I just need to figure out:

1. How to express that I am not condoning relationships with other men during our separation.
2. What our interactions should be like, a week at a time.
3. How to detach. (I've got a full plate- job, night class, and startup. I'm also working on new friends, develop family ties...)
I seem to be able to GAL better, but I still am worried to death about her time with other men.