Am I on the right track?

[wmwb123]

Hi Starsky,

I came back to see if I could get help after she filed.

My efforts at reestablishing contact were not working, so in mid-July I did a targeted exposure of the affair (close friends and her family). She called me furious (first time she'd called me in two months). I told her I wanted to help her, because the affair was going to hurt her physically, emotionally and spiritually. She said she understood why I did it but that it was not helpful. She then reiterated that she wanted a divorce. I told her she would have to do that herself. Three weeks later, she filed.

What else would you like to know? There's really nothing else to update, because she refused to answer my calls or texts. She hasn't communicated with me since she filed. Some people are encouraging me to write her a letter, but I said everything I wanted to say to her when she called. She's still in the fog, so none of it registered. Writing a letter will fall on deaf ears (blind eyes?), too, I'm afraid.