I think what helped me the most is knowing that one, I wasn't alone, and two, I wasn't crazy. It's interesting how there are many similarities in all the sitches, but at the end of the day, they are all very different too. Just to have anyone out there that I could relate to was so helpful. I couldn't relate to my friends in bad marriages who were getting a divorce. My story didn't line up with theirs.


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17