The realtor said we need to clean the property up a lot. Mowing and other stuff. I don't live there, the wife does but I said I would take care of it today. The OM is back in town from Alaska maybe today or yesterday. He might be at the house where she is staying he might not be. I don't know. All I know is the wife is planning on introducing him to the kids this weekend.
I really don't know how I would react if he is at my old house with my kids. My question is this. Should I ask her when I call to let her know I'm coming if he is there or not? Or no matter what go out there. I would prefer not to ever meet this OM. If at all possible! The way it sounds from family and kids they are not getting along the greatest right now as it is. Constant yelling and argueing on the phone with each other (the wife and OM).
What should I do. Please help!
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced
