I think that is most difficult to accept and easiest to actually see is the person your h is right now. Do you like him? Or is it the behaviors you don't like? I think that's the key. You have to be *open* or *wiling* to accept and get to know him the way he is now knowing things *could* change-keeping expectations to near zero. In some cases (and only the LBS can decide), it's probably best to move on and in others perhaps not.
You feel what you feel. There is nothing wrong with that.
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3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer