Yes. For the last 8 years I was having panic attacks and withdrew from the family. My W didn't understand them and started to create a life with the kids without me. I went to many councilors before finally last year finding one that found my root cause and I haven't experienced one since. During that time during panic attacks as she was growing more independent I became very controlling and jealous. She also couldn't understand panic attacks because I am so strong minded. She also appears to be going thru Mid-Life crisis. We went through 8-10 years of growing apart. Now I am trying to find out who I am and to be happy in my own skin. I have 2 wonderful kids who are beginning to pick up that my wife and I are having issues. My wife will disappear for hours, will not take there phone calls a great number of times. My D, age 17 has asked my W on many occasions where she has been and why won't she take her calls, etc....
M-57 W-44 D-17 S-13
W-44,M-57 Married 20 D-17,S-13 W and I own our own business and work together.