Wife Declares She is a Lesbian

[essjay]

Thanks all for reading and commenting on my situation, i really appreciate the help, support and guidance.

I've thought long and hard and can't think of any signs or clues.
Up until the weekend before BD we had an emotional bond ( hand holding, hugs etc) and an intimate relationship.

She's back from her business trip today. I'm looking forward to seeing her again and yet not looking forward to it - if that makes sense!
It has been easier whilst she's been away with just me and the girls around the house. Perhaps separation would be best for my own well being. The only way we could do that though is to sell the house we're in at the moment, which is what W wants and is waiting for I'm told. I've been looking at apartments on the market, and my youngest daughter saw me, upset her a little bit. I can't seem to get her to talk about the situation at the moment, which concerns me a little. Eldest daughter continues to be very supportive.
I've had supportive phone calls from mother in law and sister in law whilst she's been away. MIL says make her go and live on her own for a while - she won't like it!


I've been busy with things around the house (my 180's) keeping me occupied.
The next few days will be challenging..must keep up PMA and GAL somehow..try and control these feelings in my heart and stomach.

Jay