Originally Posted By: Ss06
Gah, Maybe I need to GAL more. My H definitely does NOT think I'm dating.


I will tell you what I told Lisa. Tell him you are dating a pilot. haha.

Lisa, glad to hear you are doing well GAL. But remember, the dating/GAL is a double edged sword. While it may make you feel great and wonderful, it may also illicit a punitive response from your H. He may think 'oh, well if she is going to kiss another guy, I'm going to do even more'. Now i KNOW he has already done more, but he may continue or even take it further than he has before. It is just the way a guy thinks. Heck for all I know, it is how your girls think too. Maybe it is just how people think...kind of like how people always want to get the last word in during an argument.

I am not saying to stop your dating/GAL activities, I am just saying be prepared in case...


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16