Igit newbie needs help part 3

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Had to work late today. Didn't get home until 830. Wife was very tired when I got home.She called me at 7 and asked when I could get home. She needed my help with kids. I am going to where her out Pilot. She does need to feel what it would be without my help. I helped with kids and w asked me to look at our listing with her. I did and told her it looked good. She then just wanted to talk. We talked about a cousin of mine that recently died of drug O.D. we then talked about her half brother who is a heroin.addct. He never could live up to his dad's expectations growing up. My wife's dad has played hell on all of his kids lives. When talking w wife tonight I just mentioned that her brother has turned to drugs because of his pain from growing up with her dad. Which is something we have talked about in the past. Tonite for the first time in a long long time our conversation had some depth. It felt like a little connection I haven't felt in sometime. I guess I don't want to mind read. I need to answer summons next thursday. Not going to bring it up. Going to continue PMA. Be a friend to her when she needs it. I wonder if she might be thinking about how her dad has messed up with all his kids including her. No mind reading.