I don't want to touch that with a ten foot pole. It seems to me the more I pull back and drop the rope the more he reaches out to me.
Tonight I went to watch the kids at their soccer practice. J and I discussed options for ordering S's class pictures. He suggested we split a package, but I told him I preferred to buy my own. I asked him to order the package I wanted and I would give him the cash tomorrow at S's practice. He seemed a bit out out but said ok.
He started talking about OW's mom who is not doing well at all. I listened but didn't really say anything. What do you say in a situation like that? After D was finished with practice I decided to leave since S had 25 minutes left of practice and I was cold and had things to do. After I left it dawned on me that J is really freaking out about this health deal with OW's mom. He went through it with his dad and with me when my dad and step-dad passed and a health scare with his own mom. He does not handle this stuff well. At. All. Add that onto the fact that OW is pressuring J at all angles I think he is ready to pop. He just might go into a deeper crisis.
So I am just giving it to God and taking care of myself. Detaching even more. Being the best me I can be. Leaving J to wallow in the life he has created. I hope he enjoys it.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
