Hi all! Thanks for weighing in! My H definitely thinks I am dating. I'm not sure how seriously he thinks I'm dating but I know for sure he thinks I am. He is dating.
I try to always show him that I am busy out and about and GALing. He definitely knows I'm not sitting at home crying.
If anything I think I have maybe taken the "I'm dating, getting attention and having a blast" thing too far recently. I know he is doing it as well but he doesn't seem happy.
Anyway so I figured I'd try something different and sent him some friendly messages today inviting him to a gallery opening I am attending that he would enjoy. I got a tepid or even old response. But sometimes after I make a small overture he takes a few days to warm up.
Well, thought Id try something new and relatively harmless. Tried being nice and inviting him out in a non date way. If he keeps being distant nothing lost nothing gained. I feel he is pouting over the kissing incident, but maybe he's in a bad mood over something else in his life, who knows. If he's mad over the kissing incident then hopefully it'll make him think.
Thanks again for all the advice about dating. I am flirting and very casually dating a bit. Nothing serious at all. If anything I only need to dial back a bit on "throwing it in his face" so to speak.
