I almost forgot about one of the bigger reasons that we realized caused our emotional disconnect. From what she tells me I snore to the point that she has difficulty sleeping. So after hearing John Tesh on a radio say that partners sleeping in separate beds can actually strengthen a relationship, I moved to the spare bedroom. Well after it was seemingly to late. We realized that is something that was to be blamed for the disconnect. What should have been done rather than listening to John Tesh was, I should have went to the Dr to determine if I had a sleeping disorder and whether or not something could be done about it. I have sought the help I need and am scheduled for a sleep study to determine if I have some form of sleep apnea.
