careful ss. You are trying to justify yourself INTO pursuing. Now, maybe someone else will disagree, but the reality for you (and the rest of us LBS) is that our spouses do NOT want a date with us. I know the urge to do something to show them how great things can be, or remind them of how great things used to be is a powerful one. But ya gotta resist it. Remember, counter intuitive. The only way your H is going to want to go on a date with you is for him to WANT to go on a date with you.

As for your first question, yea...I am sure we all do. But stop and think, at THIS point in time, do you REALLY want to hear the answers from him? Prob not....

Chin up!!!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16